With some sort of voodoo magic it’s working. Mike mentioned switching all AP’s to only my mesh test network. That seemed to have kicked them place, but then I set colors for each SSID and assigned all 3 to the APs. It still stayed connected at fast speeds so I deleted the mesh test SSID and all is still good. Before it also wasn’t accepting devices to connect to it unless I manually pushed them over, now it is:
Each SSID I gave it’s own colors even though I tried that earlier:
