How can I force an AP to mesh with the nearest AP or a specific AP.
I have a AP that keeps attaching to an AP that is weaker than one that is closer and stronger …
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Not that I’m aware BUT !!! You can disable Mesh Device on a specific AP. So if you want to connect a specific AP , you can enable mesh on only these devices. It may not be the best way, but it would probably work ahahaha Let me know if you find a better solution, I’m curious 
Can you share what the signals are of the two you’re referring to (the one it is connecting to and the one you think it should be connecting to)? Also knowing the 5GHz channels of both may be of benefit.