Locking which AP meshes to which?

Hi all-

Have a job with 1 hardwired AP, and 3 meshed APs. All works very well, most of the time.

Sometimes, if one unit gets powered off, the units attempt to re-mesh to a new AP. Then when the other AP comes back online, they don’t seem to jump back to the stronger link.

So the question is, is there a way to lock which mesh AP talks to which?

TIA